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Comparing Yourself to Others

Direct Sales/Network Marketing individuals earn an income by selling products or services while recruiting others to do the same. Although it can be a lucrative and flexible career choice, but can also be challenging. Especially when comparing oneself to others in the industry.

Understand that everyone has a unique journey.

One important thing to remember regarding direct sales/network marketing is that everyone has a unique journey. No two people have the same experience, even if they work for the same company and sell the same products. Some have a natural talent for sales, while others may need to work harder to achieve the same level of success. Some have a large network of people to sell to, while others may need to build their network from scratch. Understanding that everyone has a unique journey and knowing your story is different from others can help you focus. Comparing oneself to others leads to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and even depression. It is essential to learn how to stop this harmful habit. This blog post will explore strategies to stop comparing yourself to others in direct sales/network marketing.

Stay focused on your own goals. 

Staying focused on your own goals stops you from comparing yourself to others. Set short-term measurable goals. How many sales do you want to make each month? How many new contacts you can add to your network each week? Have a system that helps you track your progress and shows you where you need to focus each month. Always celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small they may be! Focusing on your own progress can help you feel more confident and motivated. It can also help you identify areas where you may need to improve.

Avoid social media comparisons.

Social media is an excellent tool for networking and promoting your business, but it can also be a breeding ground for comparison. Seeing other network marketers posting about their successes can make you feel like you’re not doing enough or not achieving enough. To avoid social media comparisons, limit your time scrolling through your feeds. Take a break from social media and unfollow people that make you feel bad about yourself. Use social media accordingly to connect with potential customers and build your network.

Find a mentor/coach or accountability partner.

Look for an accountability partner. Having a buddy or a coach to talk to while you are reaching for your goals keeps you accountable. Find a mentor/coach or an accountability partner who can provide you with guidance and support. Your mentor/coach or partner should be someone who has experience in the industry and who can offer you constructive feedback. They should also be someone who understands that everyone has a unique journey and who can help you focus on your own progress.

Finding a mentor/coach or accountability partner in network marketing can be a valuable way to get guidance, support, and feedback as you grow your business. Here are some of my tips for finding the right mentor or accountability partner:

  1. Look for someone with experience. A good mentor/coach or accountability partner should have experience in the industry and be willing to share their knowledge and expertise with you.
  2. Find someone you trust. You should feel comfortable talking to your mentor/coach or accountability partner about your goals, challenges, and progress. Look for someone you trust and respect.
  3. Find someone with similar values. Your mentor/coach or accountability partner should share your values and vision for your business. They should be able to provide guidance and feedback that aligns with your goals.
  4. Consider your learning style. Everyone learns differently, so consider your own learning style when looking for a mentor or accountability partner. Do you prefer someone who is more hands-on or someone who provides more guidance from a distance?
  5. Reach out to your network. Ask other network marketers if they know of anyone who might be a good mentor/coach or accountability partner for you. Find an online community or attend industry events to network and connect with others.
  6. Be clear about your goals. When you approach someone about being your mentor or accountability partner, be clear about your goals and what you hope to achieve. It will help them understand how they can best support you.
  7. Be open to feedback. A good mentor or accountability partner will provide constructive feedback and help you identify areas for improvement. Be open to their feedback and willing to make changes to improve your business.

Finding a mentor/coach or accountability partner in network marketing can be a valuable way to get support and guidance as you grow your business. By finding someone who has experience, shares your values, and is a good fit for your learning style, you can get the guidance you need to achieve your goals.

Practice gratitude.

Practicing gratitude is a powerful tool to help you stop comparing yourself to others in their tracks. When you find yourself feeling envious of someone else’s success, take a moment to reflect on what you’re grateful for in your own life. It will help you shift your mindset from one of scarcity to one of abundance. Keep a gratitude journal by your bed at night, and write down three things you’re grateful for daily. It can help you focus on the positive things in your life and help you feel more content with where you are.

Take care of yourself.

Taking care of yourself is vital in direct sales/network marketing. The industry can be demanding and stressful, and caring for yourself can help you stay focused and motivated. Ensure you sleep well, eat a healthy diet, and exercise regularly. Taking care of your physical health can also help improve your mental health, essential for staying positive and motivated in your business.

In addition to physical self-care, ensure you’re taking care of your mental and emotional health. It can include practicing mindfulness, meditation, or yoga and maybe seeking therapy or counseling if needed.

Remember that success takes time.

Success in network marketing, as with any other business, takes time. It’s important to remember that you won’t become a top earner overnight, and that’s okay. Instead of comparing yourself to others who may have been in the industry for longer or who have different circumstances than you do, focus on the long term. Keep working hard, keep learning, and keep building your network. Over time, your efforts will pay off.

Remember that you’re not alone.

Remember that you’re not alone in your struggles with comparison in direct sales/network marketing. It’s a common challenge that many people in the industry face. You may consider joining an online community for network marketers to connect with others going through similar experiences. A supportive community can help you feel less alone and provide the motivation and encouragement you need to keep going.

In conclusion, comparing yourself to others in direct sales/network marketing can harm you, leading to feelings of incompetence, low self-esteem, and even depression. It’s important to understand that everyone has a unique journey, stay focused on your goals, avoid social media comparisons, remember that success takes time, find a mentor/coach or accountability partner, practice gratitude, care for yourself, and remember that you’re not alone. By following these strategies, you can stay focused and motivated in your direct sales/network marketing business and achieve your desired success.

Are you struggling to grow your business? Is comparing yourself to others holding you back? Don’t wait until the right time comes to reach out for help.

Let’s have a conversation and find out what your roadblocks are.

Dawn Stebbing
Dawn Stebbing
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